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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
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I just refreshed my memory on what the place looks like.
I think that if I were teenager, Cheesecake Factory would seem like a great place for a date, a reasonable step or two up from a clean fast-food restaurant.
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6/19/2014 9:16:33 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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I get your point i clearly disregarded it and went on a tangent.
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6/19/2014 9:17:47 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
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What some here don't seem to be grasping is that this woman dressed like a SLOB for her first date with this guy. That's the main thing. If he had told her they were going to eat frog legs -- that they gigged themselves -- then she was dressed appropriately.
But no...he had enough consideration for her to take the time and effort to look nice. She apparently couldn't care the hell less. She sounds very lacking in the social graces.
That said, the OP didn't strike out, so, as Medusa said, obviously that was the main thing. If a guy knows he's going to get some p*ssy, or at least the reasonable inference of some future p*ssy, all of a sudden what she's wearing becomes a moot point.
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6/19/2014 9:18:22 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Common sense in the fashion arena is personal and subjective. Not everyone places a lot of value on material things.
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6/19/2014 9:18:25 PM |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
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OP got to check out her legs, that's should be a good thing.
If it were me, I'd be wearing pants lol. Jeans to be exact.
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6/19/2014 9:18:44 PM |
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galaxyqueene
Sugar Land, TX
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This is hilarious.
Men, money and dating ~~~ gettin' all snooty now when so many complain about buying coffee ~~ even
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6/19/2014 9:19:06 PM |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
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Common sense in the fashion arena is personal and subjective. Not everyone places a lot of value on material things.
You quoted me but there was no quote?
I'm not sure why you commented that while quoting me.
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6/19/2014 9:19:26 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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What some here don't seem to be grasping is that this woman dressed like a SLOB for her first date with this guy. That's the main thing. If he had told her they were going to eat frog legs -- that they gigged themselves -- then she was dressed appropriately.
But no...he had enough consideration for her to take the time and effort to look nice. She apparently couldn't care the hell less. She sounds very lacking in the social graces.
That said, the OP didn't strike out, so, as Medusa said, obviously that was the main thing. If a guy knows he's going to get some p*ssy, or at least the reasonable inference of some future p*ssy, all of a sudden what she's wearing becomes a moot point.
It wasn't the first date.
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6/19/2014 9:21:09 PM |
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josfsd06
Sioux Falls, SD
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Well, if how she dresses is such a big deal, and you don't think she dresses appropriately, you should probably put it down and walk away.
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6/19/2014 9:21:26 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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You quoted me but there was no quote?
It was the post where you quoted op and his what has the world come to When you have to discuss clothing Comment.
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6/19/2014 9:22:39 PM |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
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It was the post where you quoted op and his what has the world come to When you have to discuss clothing Comment.
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Um she quoted me saying he did discuss attire and I was advising her he did not.
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6/19/2014 9:24:47 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
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Oh, well, hell, if it's someplace like THAT, gimme a good ol' Cracker Barrel!
Exactly like a good ol' Cracker Barrel, from what I saw of it, but perhaps a little more crowded, and the Cheesecake Factory I've seen up close felt like it was aimed a bit more toward a younger crowd (I got the impression it was a bit like the higher end of the sorts of restaurants you'd see in a mall).
I'd probably dress up in khakis and a button-down shirt for a date there, but wouldn't feel bad about wearing jeans and a T-Shirt, either.
If I were younger, it would feel like I was on a pretty fancy date there.
I wouldn't feel too guilty about taking a date to one now, either, especially if she were to say she loves eating there.
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6/19/2014 9:26:35 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
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Um she quoted me saying he did discuss attire and I was advising her he did not.
That's just it. During the call I said, "That dress on your profile pic probably looks even better in person." She said it definitely did. So with that said, and her knowing where we were eating, I was expecting more than what she wore.
Page 2, Misty - I guess it was a conversation of a sort
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6/19/2014 9:26:52 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
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@ e_llicit
We're cool.
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6/19/2014 9:27:22 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Um she quoted me saying he did discuss attire and I was advising her he did not.
Let's just give each other nods of confusion and call it a day.
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6/19/2014 9:28:21 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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@ e_llicit
We're cool.
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6/19/2014 9:29:11 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
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What some here don't seem to be grasping is that this woman dressed like a SLOB for her first date with this guy. That's the main thing. If he had told her they were going to eat frog legs -- that they gigged themselves -- then she was dressed appropriately.
But no...he had enough consideration for her to take the time and effort to look nice. She apparently couldn't care the hell less. She sounds very lacking in the social graces.
That said, the OP didn't strike out, so, as Medusa said, obviously that was the main thing. If a guy knows he's going to get some p*ssy, or at least the reasonable inference of some future p*ssy, all of a sudden what she's wearing becomes a moot point.
She wore exactly what you said you wore to meet black-sky Mike, dumbass.
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6/19/2014 9:35:23 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
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I take it you disagree with me...
Would you say it's more than two steps up from a clean fast food restaurant?
A step down?
On the same level?
When I was a teenager in the backwoods with a minimum-wage job, I would have known it wasn't a five-star restaurant, but it would have felt pretty fancy anyway, and I can't imagine there would have been too many girls that age in that area that would have complained too much about a date there....
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6/19/2014 9:38:54 PM |
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dingodan12
Poteau, OK
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The way she used it was correct.
Female friends. The word 'friends' was modified by the word 'female.' Saying woman friends would have been incorrect usage.
Nice try. No cigar.
We're not talking g about proper grammar, sweetheart from hell.
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6/19/2014 9:40:12 PM |
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dingodan12
Poteau, OK
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right back atcha!!!
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6/19/2014 9:42:11 PM |
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galaxyqueene
Sugar Land, TX
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@r
Social graces
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6/19/2014 9:43:19 PM |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
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i dress for comfort...not to impress
This is me....exactly
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6/19/2014 9:44:00 PM |
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
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Not a casual meet/greet. An actual dinner date. Ladies, you'd make an effort to look presentable right?
Had the meet/greet Sun. Went well and ended in a kiss. Called her Mon night and arranged a dinner date for tonight. I wore a nice button up shirt and good pair of pants. She wore an old t-shirt, jean shorts, and sandals like she was going to the beach. I actually felt uncomfortable walking into the restaurant because of how differently we were dressed.
Ironically, the date itself was awesome, and the good night send off was really passionate. But I must admit, what she chose to wear REALLY rubbed me the wrong way.
I hate when this happens. Usually it's the other way around. It's a turn off to be honest. Not a complete date killer, but it's stuck in your mind and begins to fester as a negative against that person.
People should always try to dress nicely no matter what,imo.
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6/19/2014 9:44:59 PM |
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midniteriddler1
Austin, TX
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Pretty much the same genre as...
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6/19/2014 9:45:30 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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And shave!
Gentlemen, shave your face.
Ladies, shave your....well, whatever it is you shave.
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6/19/2014 9:48:54 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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And shave!
Gentlemen, shave your face.
Ladies, shave your....well, whatever it is you shave.
I use to rink shaving was essential until i learned the Power of the mustache and goatee. B*tches love goatees.
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6/19/2014 9:50:04 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
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What do I have to dress like to go to mcdonalds?...
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6/19/2014 9:50:31 PM |
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musicdesign
Moodus, CT
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Women love goatees.
fixed it and yes, it is true.
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6/19/2014 9:50:39 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
60, joined Mar. 2011
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This is hilarious.
Men, money and dating ~~~ gettin' all snooty now when so many complain about buying coffee ~~ even
I know, these are the same guys who say they'll be damned if they're going to buy dinner anywhere for anybody, now Cheesecake Factory is beneath them.
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6/19/2014 9:50:56 PM |
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monarch50
Streamwood, IL
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I use to rink shaving was essential until i learned the Power of the mustache and goatee. B*tches love goatees.
Oh hell yes or scruffy is nice too.
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6/19/2014 9:52:33 PM |
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
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If any of my dates suggest McD's I will laugh in their faces
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6/19/2014 9:52:53 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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I have to keep clean shaven. I can't stand that bristly shit all over my face. Drives me up a goddamn wall.
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6/19/2014 9:53:27 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
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She wore exactly what you said you wore to meet black-sky Mike, dumbass. Lying wh*re troll.
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6/19/2014 9:53:39 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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fixed it and yes, it is true.
No, i said b*tches. I do appreciate your effort though.
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6/19/2014 9:54:24 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
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I use to rink shaving was essential until i learned the Power of the mustache and goatee. B*tches love goatees.
Ohhhhhhh yessss...those are indeed sexy....
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6/19/2014 9:55:00 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Oh hell yes or scruffy is nice too.
Horrace can you Put up with the bristly discomfort for a babe like this?
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6/19/2014 9:57:28 PM |
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frgprnce
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2010
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I know, these are the same guys who say they'll be damned if they're going to buy dinner anywhere for anybody, now Cheesecake Factory is beneath them.
A bit of a generalization?
I have no qualms with taking a woman out to a meal, an evening at a theater, pro sporting event, dinner cruise...
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6/19/2014 9:59:23 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
60, joined Mar. 2011
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If any of my dates suggest McD's I will laugh in their faces
Well aren't you special.
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6/19/2014 9:59:39 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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Horrace can you Put up with the bristly discomfort for a babe like this?
Sorry, I would have to decline. Facial hair just ain't my thing....on me OR her!
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6/19/2014 10:01:11 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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Oh, well, hell, if it's someplace like THAT, gimme a good ol' Cracker Barrel!
Machine Shed is so much better.
Maybe I'm missing something.
I only see the one in Caesar's Palace.
There's one on Green Valley at the 215 in Henderson. It's at The District, on the Whole Foods side, across from that Chinese chain restaurant..what'sitcalled--Ghengis Khan? Has the big statues of lions at the door?
My point is that I wouldn't dress up or down for an establishment, but I would for my date.
Oh Lord, we left the whole date thing long ago. This is about how we thumb our noses at restaurants we feel are beneath us, and the poor hapless dates who'd deign to bring us to such horrible places. Well, she sure showed him, huh!?
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6/19/2014 10:02:31 PM |
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jade_a_bop
Duluth, MN
38, joined Feb. 2012
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wow...this is still going?
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6/19/2014 10:02:31 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Sorry, I would have to decline. Facial hair just ain't my thing....on me OR her! holy shit
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6/19/2014 10:02:32 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
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I take it you disagree with me...
Would you say it's more than two steps up from a clean fast food restaurant?
A step down?
On the same level?
When I was a teenager in the backwoods with a minimum-wage job, I would have known it wasn't a five-star restaurant, but it would have felt pretty fancy anyway, and I can't imagine there would have been too many girls that age in that area that would have complained too much about a date there....
Yes, I consider it way more than two steps up from fast food. Your Cheescake Factories must suck.
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6/19/2014 10:05:17 PM |
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
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Well aren't you special.
Why aren't you just common
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6/19/2014 10:05:43 PM |
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musicdesign
Moodus, CT
54, joined Apr. 2007
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over 23 pages and going strong. anyone hungry?
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6/19/2014 10:05:49 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
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Can't help it. Some guys can rock it and make it look okay.
Me? It just makes me look homeless.
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6/19/2014 10:06:21 PM |
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jodar2001
Pompano Beach, FL
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Always...............................dress, stockings and heels for my date.....
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6/19/2014 10:07:08 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
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There's one on Green Valley at the 215 in Henderson. It's at The District, on the Whole Foods side, across from that Chinese chain restaurant..what'sitcalled--Ghengis Khan? Has the big statues of lions at the door?
P.F. Chang - yes, I know, I live very close to that one but have never been inside - the one in Caesar's is a lot more fun. The aquarium, the Poseidon show going on, the thunderstorms ... I guess it's a little different than Wauwatosa WI or wherever the f*ck.
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6/19/2014 10:07:31 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Always...............................dress, stockings and heels for my date..... must suck when you go hiking.
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6/19/2014 10:07:37 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
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Why aren't you just common
I didn't realize we had royalty in the forums..welllllll besides me that is...
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6/19/2014 10:08:37 PM |
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
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over 23 pages and going strong. anyone hungry?
Stop posting delicious foods. I ran from S&D because they were talking tempting foods I'll blow my calorie count for the day
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6/19/2014 10:08:58 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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lol, yeah, it probably is. Here they seem to be in a bit more upscale places than I have seen them elsewhere.
In any case, their cheesecakes are very good.
P.F. Chang's! That's it! How in the heck did I get Genghis Khan?
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6/19/2014 10:09:09 PM |
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
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I didn't realize we had royalty in the forums..welllllll besides me that is...
Why yes madam.
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6/19/2014 10:09:29 PM |
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jodar2001
Pompano Beach, FL
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must suck when you go hiking.
that certainly would not be my first date....you didn't know they have high heeled sneakers?.....hmmmmmmm.....
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6/19/2014 10:10:22 PM |
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dingodan12
Poteau, OK
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Sorry, I would have to decline. Facial hair just ain't my thing....on me OR her!
I wear a very short, prickly beard to keep the female humans away from me. It really does not work. Stinky breath does work however.
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6/19/2014 10:11:05 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Quote from jodar2001 that certainly would not be my first date....you didn't know they have high heeled sneakers?.....hmmmmmmm.....
Aren't those suppose to workout your tooshie?
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6/19/2014 10:12:14 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
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Why yes madam.
Welllll im the queen so you can be the princess...
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6/19/2014 10:12:39 PM |
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reginamc
Las Vegas, NV
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Is P.F. Chang's too common for all you high rollers? I like them too.
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6/19/2014 10:12:55 PM |
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jodar2001
Pompano Beach, FL
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Quote from jodar2001 that certainly would not be my first date....you didn't know they have high heeled sneakers?.....hmmmmmmm.....
Aren't those suppose to workout your tooshie?
No complaints on that one from me!
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6/19/2014 10:13:32 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Panda express is better
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