That's a lie- I was engaged to a white man and my children are by white men. I think the way society is now- racism hasn't died and the white men I'm meeting are telling me that they want to date outside their race and marry. What's stopping them? -Themselves. IRDC what race you are- just treat me right and we have no problem. I'm not some ghetto hood eat; actually an educated sister.

Because trying to avoid getting jumped at every family reunion...really f**king sucks..lol

I date a black guy but he never took me to his family he said they will never accept me so I was like f**k you

I know this is an old topic, but heres my input. people date out side of there race because they don't like their own culture. why else would you want to marry someone with a different culture than your own. maybe you feel that their culture will enrich your life. maybe so, but it will not enrich your culture. i think we should do like the rest of the animals in the animal kingdom......

I simply believe in trusting one's heart, gut, instinct, intuition...whatever you want to call it.

Or maybe becuse in general black women are less willing than most white women to take crap from men?

I date a black guy but he never took me to his family he said they will never accept me so I was like f**k you

I think there are more nd more interratial marriges,every year..predict that in the not too far future there will be only one race.

He was directing it at you, not at any other black person.

Stop hiding behind other black people like a coward, you are the
cocky and arrogant one here who thinks he knows every thing.

You live in the South and what you say may be true. But up North, especially in Michigan, interracial dating/marriages is just another relationship. As a single black woman, I prefer to date only white men. They treat you with more respect, than their black counterparts who are looking for a "Beyonce`". Older black men (60 and above) want a young hottie to be on their arm. The dating pool for a black woman over 60 is very small.

I date a black guy but he never took me to his family he said they will never accept me so I was like f**k you

He was directing it at you, not at any other black person.

Stop hiding behind other black people like a coward, you are the
cocky and arrogant one here who thinks he knows every thing.

For your info mr dumb ass, i am not a racist in the sense that you refer to.I have and respect the black friends i have and see them no different as any color so f**k off.If you don't like what i have to say then block me like the pictureless little b*tch that you are.If i'm racist because i don't agree with dumb assed white women falling for the bullshit sweet talk that you bros feed all women just to get p*ssy then discard her like yesterdays trash while your already working on some other bimbo vagina, then so be it i'm racist but only toward you clowns that are in it just for the p*ssy and making the rest of us look bad.Now block me b*tch.

You have misunderstood my responses here and taken them out of context. Everyone has God-given intuition that helps you to infer the right and wrong in situations and people. Intuition is something every individual has and can use regardless of their culture. I wasn't referring to pie-in-the-sky do whatever you feel like doing kind of behavior. I was referring to that same inner voice that tells you to take an alternate route for no reason when in fact its to avoid a disaster down the road. BTW, it takes more than a simple opinion to explain the marital statistics of another culture. The whole point of my last response was to offer up a possible explanation why certain relationships fail or perhaps are doomed from the start.

For your info mr dumb ass, i am not a racist in the sense that you refer to. Well in what sense are you racist if not in the "sense" I refers to?

I have and respect the black friends i have and see them no different as any color .....blah, blah isn't it funny how the first thing out a racists mouth is they have blk friends?

If i'm racist because i don't agree with dumb assed white women falling for the bullshit sweet talk that you bros feed all women just to get p*ssy then discard her like yesterdays trash while your already working on some other bimbo vagina, then so be it i'm racist but only toward you clowns that are in it just for the p*ssy and making the rest of us look bad. Us bros? Really?

But this comment IS racist. Just like your other comments.

Ok my point still stands whether you use intuition or not. Your intuitions is something YOU feel, your intuitions are felt by others.

But it still have nothing to do with rules. Some cultures don't make relationships based on what their "intuitions" tell them. But by standards that ALL can acknowledge.

If one of their relatkonships fail its bcuz someone did something outside what the "culture" says is wrong NOT ones personal feelings, emotions or intuitions.

See the problem is you can't judge the rights and wrongs of another against your own. Of course things will seem "wrong" if you do.

See most blk woman well within their rights to jump in their men faces and give them HELL. As a result blk men walk away and the home is broken.

Where in other cultjres that woman would be beaten doing that so they don't. The result is....the family stays togetber and know tbeir place.

If they judged american culture by their standards ours would be f**ked up too.

But at the end of the day their families and relationship are kept together while our is f**ked up. No intuition can fix that either.

Firstly, there is no excuse for allowing domestic violence to be "okay". Just because a husband and wife stay together out of fear, does not make it a healthy and happy situation. Furthermore, it sounds like you are blaming black women for the wrongful things that the man may have done in the relationship which includes by the way walking away from your family. The only time walking away would be good for the family is if the person in question was a danger to them.

It's any individual's right whether you are a woman, man, whatever race, to stand up for yourself and not be used and pushed over like a door mat. The tone I get from your responses is that a woman's place is to not be an equal partner to her man and that she is to lay down and be a push over for him accepting all of his faults and negativity instead of learning and growing together in an equal and loving partnership.

One cannot mistake a couple or family physically living together as actually being connected in a healthy, loving relationship. In fact, it sounds like you don't appreciate women at all. But that's beside the point. Intuition when used properly can fix a lot in your life and help you avoid some of the many common pitfalls people tend to run into.

Now thats just a bunch of melodramatic bullshit right there. Imma tell you what MY, MY opinion on this subnect is. Take notes and quote me on this......

"Whatever makes you happy" Thats my policy. Ppl get fed up a lot of times dating their own and some don't. It doesn't matter to me one way or another bcuz who you choose and WHY doesn't stop me from my choice.

If a white guy say he like blk woman bcuz white woman aren't phat and plump enough, white women don't go off and accuse him of downing his own race, trying to deny him his right to express himself. Only blk women do

And when blk woman say white men treat them better than blk men, we don't go off accusing yall of saying ALL blk men this and downing the whole race.

Yall are the only ones who do that. Trying to shut somebody up bcuz you don't like what they saying. You can control what ppl say no more than you can control their thoughts or experiences. If this is too sensitive for you then maybe you shouldn't be here. I'm sorry it had to be said.

And like it or not THIS is one of those cultural difference I'm talking about. Blk women do it every chance they get. This is the DRAMA they're known for and no REAL man wants to come home too.

Shit just calling another cultures form of discipline Domestic Violence" Why the hell is it so damn hard to acknowledge WHATEVER they do as a simple difference from what you know? Are you that determined to decide for the whole damn planet, right and wrong based on YOUR intuitions?

Have your intuitions ever been wrong? If not, you have the power of the universe in your hands ALONE. If so, then maybe YOUR concept of right and wrong should just apply to all that you manage, your circle.

When does, "Not wanting to fight, being happy and have something" equals taking crap off someone? Why?

Blk woman are known for constantly fighting against their men. And this is the excuse thats used to do it.

If you think your man is giving crap then stop dating drug dealing, drug smoking, no job having, Tupac worshipping, thug life living, uneducated, street running, lying a** hood niggas then you won't have to worry about crap.

Oh my baby jesus. If any body's being racist it's you and the op. You're not just bringing down black women that prefer to date outside the race but the entire african american culture. You're calling black women b*tches and black men pussies.

Do any of you even see the issue? If things actually did work the way you think they work then obviously there has to be an amount of effort put in on both sides. What the f**k do you think this is? Disneyworld. With relationships working cause they're supposed to.

That the op is a doucebag was clear from the begining.

I bet no woman of any color can stand men of his kind as long as she has a working brain.

Disrespectful and arrogant.

White, green or black those are men to avoid ladies!

You may try to dance around it, but the tone in your responses and "scenarios" are to brow beat black women especially. Furthermore, discipline is for children not an adult and that brand of "discipline" as you put it IS violent and designed to physically and emotionally hurt an individual and keep them down. You talk as if you don't know the meaning of domestic violence. The only person who gets advantages from that is the abuser which in those cultures/mentalities is usually the man (which I can see why someone such as you places it so high on the pedestal).

Yes their culture is different and I personally would not want to ever be apart of it. I I thank God every day that I was born in America and not another country where women are considered to be less than a person. For the record, my intuition has never steered me wrong. I make wrong choices when I refuse to listen to that inner voice of guidance AND my conscience. All I'm simply saying is that rather than be a mindless drone to society's opinion on how to choose a partner, one should also and mostly listen to their intuition to protect themselves from making poor choices in regard to relationships. On that note, I'm going to agree that we disagree when it comes to that.

Crap can come from any men, as soon as does not love a woman.....he watch other women, he plays games and so on....

....I agree with you on the fact that is better to avoid the drama and walk away, period.

Anyway I cannot have much respect for those women who stay in crappy relationships for "having something????"

I mean....having what?

Please.

Why is the divorce rate between white men and black women the lowest on record?

Why is the divorce rate between white men and black women the lowest on record?