Perhaps you got offended by my comment, lol. You should understand my frustration with you generalizing black women. I was initially going to break down everything wrong with your response but I refuse to bash a black man and drag you through the mud. No need to, you can do that all by yourself. However, when you take a good look at yourself and see you're covered in filth.....I'm the woman that will be there to lend you a hand up and help clean you of all that mud. We need to do better....as a people.

Same reason most black men never marry black women. And I love me some black women but a lot of their attitudes are shitty..Especially if they got a little money, you cant tell them shit.

Of course everyone is entitled to their opinion. I am VERY proud of who I am, what I am, and where I come from. It would be a great day when race doesn't matter. Unfortunately, that day has not come. I've read multiple posts on here and its quite disturbing to see exactly how people feel about black people. I'm sorry, but I do feel loyal to my black brothers, just as I would want them to feel loyal to their black women. I'm not going to put them down, and I'm going to address it when they put us down. Again, it would be great if race didn't matter, but it does. It matters everyday. I can't change the world and their hatred for black people, but I can try to enlighten my brothers and sisters, just as I would my biological siblings.

No!!!!! Don't do it.....black man putting black women down. How do you expect others to respect us, if we can't respect each other? Come on black brother, we can do better.

Quote from srv63: So op, naturally you are going to assume "chimp" means black society in general? Looks like you clearly have issues.

Dude let's be honest we all know that when a white person wants to say something racist they would try to equate blacks to primates. Exactly how many whites have he called a chimp up to this point that he has proof of doing so.

I personally haven't called anyone a chimp or monkey or any type of primate. However I have called my dad a monkey before. He's not black so your theory has some holes in it.

Let me make this perfectly clear for those who love to argue. This is NOT to condone or condemn what Black said and hope I don't have to repeat that.....OK

All my life I've heard complaints from blk folks bout the issues we have and why we c can't do better. So obviously this go back mad generations, some say slavery but I say its biblical.

But all we do is talk. The moment someone puts forth an action they are murdered (character assassination) by other blks to kedp shit the way it is.

But you can't clean up SHIT unless the problem is put on the table. Talking about the positive while ignoring the negative, pfetending lkke its not real only makes it worst.

If your child (future) was hit by a car (God forbid) you wouldn't go to the hospital with pictures of his graduation, summer in Florida and birthday party's to talk about would you???

The ONLY THING on your mind is .... what happened, whats the problem and how do we fix it. Not how nice he looked at prom.

I bet when you called your dad a monkey you weren't doing it to try to belittle him, but you did it in a playful manner. Therefore my theory doesn't have a whole in it it's just you trying to cover it up. White men don't say stuff like that to black people in a joking manner it's based off racism. That may not be the case it with you, but people aren't foolish.

I have nothing to cover-up, I am not on here spittin' racial comments and twisting peoples words around to a racial remark. I make fun of everyone equally, some should have swam the other direction when ejaculated from their fathers penis, would've saved the world from some stupid sh*t. People are people, there are dumb white people just as there dumb people in every walk of life there is also smart in all. You are obviously one of the dumb ones by choosing to make everything a racial conflict. Also you sound dumb when you use the word "whole" when you meant hole!

"Wanna make a quick $5,000?!? No games or jokes I'm very real and serious! I have a fantasy I would love to do. If you're interested let me know if not I meant no disrespect at all!"


These are the type of messages I get. This was from a white man. Of course, not all white men send messages like this.....some are very respectful. Still, I have NEVER received a proposition like this from a black man, and its not the first time. This only supports Dr. Know's case.

Do any of you understand that?

Okay.....I'm proposing that we "black people" stop bashing each other on this site. That is the action I'm taking. Sure, we have problems within our community, but this is not the site to air our dirty laundry.

Bashing? Good lets start there. How do YOU define what "bashing" is? Most blk women will define it as ANYTHING.... ANYTHING.... let me say it one more time....ANYTHING they don't like thats being express about them. Period

Thats when the "argumentative tactics" and "combat strategies" of the too sensitive come into play. Accusing ppl of saying shit they didn't say, twisting ppl words around or putting words in ppl mouths then condemn them for it.

And don't forget the ole "generalization" attack. This is when someone say something a women don't like they claim "generalizing" to shut them up. But is "OK" this it when it benefits them.

How could ANYONE get something accomplished under those circumstances? How?

Good morning Dr.....I hope you're having a good day today.

And it doesn't matter if I make a thread to peacefully discuss a legitimate topic as race. Racists make topics and make comments all over the place.

No Twining. An intelligent discussion about a serious issue in America like race....is nothing like the hateful, racist, nasty topics made by bigots designed only to denigrate other races.

Going by your logic, the ONLY topics that would ever address race, would be made by disgusting bigots.

How can you not understand this. A white guy makes a thread slandering black women and putting up stereotypes and he's racist. A black guy makes the exact same thing and it's an "intelligent" discussion although as soon as a white guy posts an insult it's racist. How doss that make sense?

If anything, if a racist were going through topics and saw "why don't white men marry black women" made by a black man with other black men in it insulting black women, what exactly do you think they're gonna do? Especially with said black man repeating that because he started the thread and it's of some sort of intelligence that it's not racist.