You are correct, white men should be the ones answering for this disparity among their choices for marriage.

Nevertheless, she is the only black woman on the topic not acting a damn fool, talking with that stereotypical attitude, hating on black men, and being extremely intelligent.

I welcome her responses.

These are terrible examples to me. It's your opinion that you share the same attractiveness level as your white friend to that one specific black male. So that in no way supported your hypothesis to me. My comments haven't torn down black women, although a few comments in here by black men have. But what you overlook I this analysis, is that I asked a simple question. Then black women came in here with that attitude. IN RESPONSE to that all-too-common attitude (that attacked black men and me), THEN...these brothers addressed the bullshit in those sister's comments.

So again, who's fault is that?

Black Women should've shit their f**king mouths this topic in reality. Shut the f**k up, AND LET THE WHITE MAN EXPLAIN TO US ALL WHY HE DOESN'T MARRY BLACK WOMEN LIKE HE DOES OTHER RACES.

But you can't tell a lot of black women a got damn thing. Here I am asking a question about the racism that is against black women, and indicting white men for this bias.

But stupid nig.ger b*tches, who in their mind don't like men and adore whites, attack me and all black men.

This is that bullshit I'm addressing.

You personally, have been very reasonable, but many others have not. Also, it isn't tearing down anyone to ask hard questions. This topic has ZERO to do with black men. NOTHING. So any comment toward a black man is a racist, or sellout stupid b*tch being mad because I shined a light on racist white men.

The topic is asking WHY white men think of less of black women? So black women shouldn't be attacked either. All anyone should be doing, is analyzing the marriage choices of white men.

Thanks.

You are not very insightful, rude, immature, and attacking with lies. Good luck.

Just as black men may feel constantly dumped on by black women...

However, as a black person one thing I try NOT to do is promote the negative stereotypes on blacks...and heaven knows there are soooo many. I see that your way of "supporting" black women is to shine a light on those stereotypes. It's not going to change their behavior because it is deeply ingrained in their minds that black men don't appreciate them. I'm not saying that's true, but for some...that may be how they feel. I believe in taking a different approach in supporting black men and women. Instead of drawing attention to the stereotypes, let's create some threads about the positive traits our people have and promote that.

Good. I don't have nothing to add to this topic. I am not a white man.

"We are ALL ready to win, just as we are born knowing only life, it is defeat that we must learn to prepare for" Hahn.

This means focusing on the positive all the time makes you a forever victim of the negative. To me our negatives are no different than cancer. But our woman don't want to address it bcuz emotionally they can't deal, tbeir too sensitive. So that cancer will continue to spead and NEVER be delt with.

This is the MAIN reason men say we're NOT equals. Bcuz when it comes to the shit, THE REAL SHIT that DO tear the race and destroy our families WOMAN CAN'T DEAL bcuz there emotions done f**ked up their better judgement.

"Not being equal is NOT about supermacy, superiority or inferiority. Its about staying in YOUR place so that ALL our concerns can be addressed.

By try telling a sista that.

Who wants to take care of a bunch of niglets!

@ Sweet, I DIDN'T SAY ALL BLACK MEN were thinking about slavery even they date a white woman. And I'm not against interracial relationships.

You are assuming that. Again, I wrote a whole topic explaining my entire position. Go read it.

In that topic, I show how it's not hypocritical. IF..IF..I held the position you mentioned. For I already explained that even though white women were a part of slavery, white women were being oppressed ad well the whole time too. As well as the fact that IT WASN'T WHITE WOMEN that initiated, made possible, or enforced slavery.

WHITE MEN did that. Without white men, slavery would not have been possible.

So there IS A DIFFERENCE, thus, making that position not hypocritical.

Please, go to the topic and read it, before assuming and taking this topic off course.

So there was a personal reason for making this thread. You're mad cause as the days pass black women are going over to the lighter side. That's all you had to post Op. I'm not gonna get into explaining how it isn't based on race but on character because quite a few of you will take it the wrong way.

Well op, perhaps you could ask the question the other way around. Why don't black women marry white men? I can't speak for every black woman, but I personally feel very loyal to black men, not to mention I feel we share more in common. I have been in interracial relationships but I understand the strife of a black man and I choose to stand by them. It is not for a white man to choose to marry me, it's for me to choose to marry him.

Well op, perhaps you could ask the question the other way around. Why don't black women marry white men? I can't speak for every black woman, but I personally feel very loyal to black men, not to mention I feel we share more in common. I have been in interracial relationships but I understand the strife of a black man and I choose to stand by them. It is not for a white man to choose to marry me, it's for me to choose to marry him.

Everyone knows slavery didn't start 500 years ago.

THE TRANS-ATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE DID.

That's what we're talking about when Americans talk about slavery in THIS country.

Not the ancient history of slavery.

Wasn't talking about white men started slavery on earth. I was referring to The Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade only in this discussion.

It looks as though your facts regarding the history on trans Atlantic slavery was flawed though. So who's mistake was it?