10/12/2014 10:50:34 AM |
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newbegain1952
Deltona, FL
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I have dated a few woman in my age group and can not seen to get them to talk about what they really want from a relation.
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10/12/2014 11:04:02 AM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
73, joined Nov. 2007
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They want everything they had before and now more.. Its a No Brainer... LMAO..
...........I think the Bull is off for a Walk maybe Run...
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10/12/2014 11:46:28 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
68, joined Feb. 2007
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This is why woman always say they want men to be honest with them, They want the man with the mostist of everything, they hate geting fooled by a cadilack man with a street persons bank account thats why I'm single, I'm a honist man and am dumped for Phonys all the time
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10/12/2014 12:15:12 PM |
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orz
Portage, WI
67, joined Jul. 2010
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Someone who thinks like them. Likes the same things. Can remember that actors name. Grew up with common memories. And at this age, got over the macho man, know it all- little woman, my way attitude. And doesnt have one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. Bathes when needed and keeps his teeth in. Of course some are the same gal as when young..looking for a two legged paycheck...a millionaire preferred.
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10/12/2014 1:41:47 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
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What she said ^^^ plus at this age, 58 I'm ready to embrace religion. I'm really trying here. My DH guy and I attend Apologetics Class and have a major discussion on the way back. It's a great time to bounce ideas back and forth. The rest of the time he doesn't make any sense. Must be the onset of Alzheimer's setting in. DaRn it. First his eyesight now his brain. I don't know about the rest .......but I'll get back to you on that next year.
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10/12/2014 1:49:08 PM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
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What she said ^^^ plus at this age, 58 I'm ready to embrace religion. I'm really trying here. My DH guy and I attend Apologetics Class and have a major discussion on the way back. It's a great time to bounce ideas back and forth. The rest of the time he doesn't make any sense. Must be the onset of Alzheimer's setting in. DaRn it. First his eyesight now his brain. I don't know about the rest .......but I'll get back to you on that next year.
Do we know each other...
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10/12/2014 8:22:55 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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I have dated a few woman in my age group and can not seen to get them to talk about what they really want from a relation.
I would say we want pretty much the same guys do. Companionship, similar interests, affection, some ladies want to get married and others don't...to get from the relationship just about the same they put in.....
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10/12/2014 9:21:58 PM |
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sharsea
Gulfport, MS
72, joined Dec. 2008
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All jokes aside, I sincerely think a lady desires a man that will say what he means with honesty and integrity
and not say things that are not true.
There may be lust at first sight but not long lasting love in most cases, after a couple of dates. That comes slower with most people our age with caution.
It is funny to think a few here think all women are after is your wallets.
Well...it certainly a flip side now days with younger guys looking for a Suga Mama to support them.
Guess all parties need question and answer sheets to take each other into consideration. After all.....many have forgotten the art of courting this day and age.
Some are still seeking a mother or a replacement to cook, clean, and wash their dirty clothes. Dial a maid...it is really cheaper in the long run and no woman is going to stick around if this is what a man is seeking. They may gladly do all those task if she has the love, affection respect, companionship and feeling of appreciation from the man.
Enough of these ramblings from a contented southern belle that has my house guest upset over the noise I made when I dozed off and dropped the Kindle.
Good night.
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10/12/2014 9:31:57 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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Beats the crap out of me.....
I gave up easily after getting burned good.....
Old rock song "Who wrote the book of Love?" .....
I have some great lady friends here and on FB.....
That'll have to do for me.....
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10/12/2014 9:35:23 PM |
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laffwimme
Bent Mountain, VA
66, joined Jul. 2012
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Ha! Like I would know? I'm still on DH.....that oughta tell ya something....
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10/12/2014 10:18:19 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008
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I believe I understand you guys...See, to me is senseless to date a gent. and no to let him know what I want from him. I guess some ladies are afraid to ask; they fear the guys will run away. If they dos...well, they weren't the right ones.
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10/13/2014 8:55:29 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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bump
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10/13/2014 10:28:57 AM |
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sankie1
Irvine, KY
69, joined Dec. 2011
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Actually, not all women this age are looking for a man. At least in the sense of a love/lust relationship. Some are comfortable in their own setting and stuck in their habits and ways, and unwilling to change that for a two party relationship. In other words some like who they are and are comfortable in their own skin and enjoy their own time. Of course, there is the missing of the partnership and laughter/companionship of the opposite sex regardless whether it's male or female.
Some are also wise enough to know that we all have a past and to wonder into a guys life who has had the "best woman" as wife is a tricky area to negotiate. Takes a brave soul for either man or woman to venture into that sacred territory.
Yes, there are those looking for a fat bank account and it makes it more difficult for those who aren't. This also goes both ways. Honestly, I get ill when I see a woman batting her eyes and playing the "poor, pitiful me" game. They seem to have the guys falling all over them, handing out money like they have an endless account. Thinking it may also be the guy is feeling the ego surge thinking he is doing something for the lady and it makes him feel good to do so. If you notice this happens mostly with the older guys and the women seem to have no definite limits as to who he is or what he looks like, as long as he has the money and willing to turn loose of it. I have tired of walking the road of "It's a man's world" and women are destined to do this or that as the rules of society dictate. We are a throwback to the society that we grew up in and still working with the issue's. A friend is worth more than gold, so guess that's more important to me than a partnership.
If I've offended anyone with this I apologize because it isn't my intention. Just saying what I feel about the subject.
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10/13/2014 11:35:03 AM |
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orz
Portage, WI
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Wise words. I was raised to think the world revolves around your man, dad or husband. At the same time, as an only child to be the one to take over the farm and keep an eye on mom when dad died...was raised to rule. Married men willing to walk beside me if I wanted or to let me lead sometimes. And now after being responsible for so much for so long..the idea of marriage gives me the willies!!! I am old and set in my ways, just like any man is. Joe and I are wonderful living together separately. When young it is easy for two scared kids to face the world together and hunt and gather together. Now it is a case of hovering over our gatherings and eying up the other person as an invader. And that is not just stuff, but also lifestyle preferences.
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10/13/2014 11:36:24 AM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
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Very Well Said Sankie and I agree with Laffwime...LOL
I will honestly say I never have met any or they even indicated they are after money unless it was said in a Joking Way here in DH except for the young Scammers and if a guy is that dumb to play in these young girls game that is his Tuff Luck..
I think the bottom line is not many unless they are really desperate or for a special reason will leave their own families and environment to go live with another mate.. and if you are honest with yourself we all know relationships are not easy and is a challenge and constant compromise to make it work.. At our ages do you really think we have that time to do this..???
One gal told me she has not been able to maintain a local relationship how in the world would she ever have a long distant relationship..??? VERY TRUE WITH MOST...The Realm of Reality this is true in most all cases as I to have experienced the same.. along in my case I am to busy to maintain a compatible relationship that would be acceptable for most woman...
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10/13/2014 1:14:31 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Actually, not all women this age are looking for a man. At least in the sense of a love/lust relationship. Some are comfortable in their own setting and stuck in their habits and ways...
I am not talking about anybody in particular...but I can't help but to sense when a person says what I am quoting he/she is only presenting a facade, a wall to covers his / her own desires and needs....sometimes, I even sense that person is embarrassed to let the world that he/she wishes to be loved and to love back...AGAIN.
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10/13/2014 1:58:33 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
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yikes, older women sure expect a whole lot more of a man, than younger women do ,your perfect man (for you) does not exist. any succesful marriage, is gonna be give, and take, and compromise. JMO
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10/13/2014 2:25:53 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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yikes, older women sure expect a whole lot more of a man, than younger women do ,your perfect man (for you) does not exist. any succesful marriage, is gonna be give, and take, and compromise. JMO
Louie, please don't generalize. I am an older woman and I only ask for the same I am willing to give.
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10/13/2014 4:52:14 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Yeah, whatever ..... for once I don't have a desire to even chime in on this one.
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10/13/2014 6:02:52 PM |
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sharsea
Gulfport, MS
72, joined Dec. 2008
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Yeah, whatever ..... for once I don't have a desire to even chime in on this one.
Smart woman!
I have learned you may as well keep your mouth shut for at this age opinions are in concret of the harden mind.
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10/13/2014 6:02:54 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
74, joined Mar. 2008
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search for the gold
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10/13/2014 9:08:49 PM |
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sweetate2
Albion, IN
67, joined Jul. 2013
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I believe all anyone wants is truth no matter what age... man or woman
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10/14/2014 8:18:21 AM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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Hmmm.....
He's breathing.....
Doesn't need a nurse.....
Has his own money.....
Has his own house.....
Can still drive.....
Has real or false teeth..... not too many holes.....
Can still walk around and see things and enjoy it.....
Doesn't constantly talk about the ex or the dead spouse.....
Remembers your birthday.....
Isn't obsessed with sports.....
Can actually carry on a meaningful conversation.....
Seems to me that this list could apply either way. The ravages of age take a toll on everyone..... Don't be expecting more than you are yourself.....
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10/14/2014 8:58:52 AM |
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clarity101
Aurora, CO
66, joined Oct. 2008
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welllll...
at least he probly is not potty trained yet
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10/14/2014 9:44:06 AM |
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clarity101
Aurora, CO
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10/14/2014 10:11:33 AM |
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clarity101
Aurora, CO
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10/14/2014 3:40:03 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Hmmm.....
Don't be expecting more than you are yourself.....
Then, you forgot to list "He has similar level of education."
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10/14/2014 4:29:59 PM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
67, joined Jul. 2008
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He's breathing....Yup
Doesn't need a nurse.....Debatable
Has his own money.....Very little
Has his own house.....Nope
Can still drive.....Yup, albeit quite slowly
Has real or false teeth..... not too many holes.....If I can remember where I put them
Can still walk around and see things and enjoy it.....Hobble is more like it
Doesn't constantly talk about the ex or the dead spouse.....No, never had either one
Remembers your birthday.....Yeah, if you keep hinting
Isn't obsessed with sports.....Hate sports
Can actually carry on a meaningful conversation.....Especially about the good ole days
Thanks for this checklist Bub, guess I'm not the catch I thought I was.............
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10/14/2014 4:40:09 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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Then, you forgot to list "He has similar level of education."
Don't expectmore than you are yourself would probably cover education as well.....
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10/14/2014 4:45:12 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Don't expectmore than you are yourself would probably cover education as well.....
Clarification never created problems...and it also tells the other person he/she can't get away with having less education...j/s
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10/14/2014 4:53:19 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Don't expectmore than you are yourself would probably cover education as well.....
Bub .... to me education is a balance .... to me it's ok to have one better at something than the other, you can compliment one another.
And actually education isn't the end all to tell all ........ it's wisdom to know what to with the education you have.
You can be with some of the most educated people in the world and yet it seems they have chit for brains the way they use allll that knowledge.
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10/14/2014 5:24:04 PM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
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A women who wants a Highy Educated Man Tells me she must be "STUPID and has NO SENSE" herself
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10/14/2014 8:51:16 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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Enough is enough.....
Bull, there is no room for us to comment on this thread. Bah.....
Probably why we will die single..... could be worse.....
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10/14/2014 9:38:12 PM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
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Enough is enough.....
Bull, there is no room for us to comment on this thread. Bah.....
Probably why we will die single..... could be worse.....
..................Yea your probably right Bub...
Most the women don't like me because I Snore Fart and Drewel in Bed.....
....The ones that do like me want be to get out of Bed and Walk and Follow their Dog with a Baggie..
..........Life is good in a relationship
.............It does LQQK like "Singlism" the rest of our Life's
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10/14/2014 9:58:03 PM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
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I wonder if (for example) this group met somewhere for a weekend if some of these requirements would have less importance if attraction developed between individuals?
Love can still blind us! Even at our age.
But then maybe I've naive.
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10/15/2014 5:09:09 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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I wonder if (for example) this group met somewhere for a weekend if some of these requirements would have less importance if attraction developed between individuals?
Love can still blind us! Even at our age.
But then maybe I've naive.
nah, it could happen, you just never know.
But I would LOVE for this group to meet-up. I think it would be a riot!!!
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10/15/2014 7:28:08 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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I have dated a few woman in my age group and can not seen to get them to talk about what they really want from a relation.
Below there is an example of what women in this age group "DON'T WANT....This is the third e/mail of this kind I received today.
""generalj..
Hello I am General James L. Terry, Assumed Command Of The International Security Assistance Force Joint Command on June 12, 2012. I also serves as Deputy Commanding General, U.S. Forces – Afghanistan and Commanding General, U.S. Army V Corps, I Am Currently Now In Afghanistan Kabul for peace keeping mission, can we chat to know each other better if you don't mind,,
Oct. 15 8:21 AM""
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10/15/2014 7:32:07 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Enough is enough.....
Bull, there is no room for us to comment on this thread. Bah.....
Probably why we will die single..... could be worse.....
I always say "To read a person's posts is a great way to find out if he/she is OK to befriend."
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10/15/2014 7:35:33 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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I wonder if (for example) this group met somewhere for a weekend if some of these requirements would have less importance if attraction developed between individuals?
Love can still blind us! Even at our age.
But then maybe I've naive.
Hi, Dave...always a pleasure to read you.
What you say may happen but, when things cool off the need to have things in common is the one that tells you if the relationship could last.
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10/15/2014 8:23:51 AM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
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Love can still blind us! Even at our age.
Probably when the sun starts rising in the West............
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10/15/2014 3:56:54 PM |
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afboy60
Perry, GA
63, joined Apr. 2014
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Lookin for that devil may care gal wants fun no strings had enough of those. Bring back the 70's
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10/15/2014 4:39:57 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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I always say "To read a person's posts is a great way to find out if he/she is OK to befriend."
You sure got this one right!
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10/15/2014 5:44:53 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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I was just going to say all I want is wild sex and money.
ok ok I lied ........ I don't need the money.
Funny, I still don't care to get serious about this topic. Guess I'm going through a fuNk or something.
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10/15/2014 6:16:04 PM |
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sharsea
Gulfport, MS
72, joined Dec. 2008
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welllll...
at least he probly is not potty trained yet
I love it! They failed to add Sophia
Lauren married her long time chauffeur that is thirty years younger.
Okay, guess you old farts will not mind losing us to the thirty and forty group
members.
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10/15/2014 6:24:05 PM |
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morles
San Antonio, TX
73, joined Nov. 2007
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I would say go for it...
...( a younger man but check your mirror and wallet before you do..)
.........Just a thought is all....
................the BULL...
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10/15/2014 6:26:58 PM |
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oh_lydia
Upton, MA
69, joined May. 2013
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My mirror told me N O a long, long time ago
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10/15/2014 6:35:05 PM |
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sharsea
Gulfport, MS
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.... Bull, I am warming up on a good looking, 6' 2" eyes of blue, 56 year old that has his own wallet....
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10/15/2014 6:37:11 PM |
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fishingmom
Lake Alfred, FL
63, joined Aug. 2008
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the biggest thing for me is to even FIND a man IN this area first... course 2 would be better to have something to compare each other with
JK I like the solitude right now, maybe when I retire I will have more time to pursue a love interest. Im too tired right now
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10/15/2014 7:10:26 PM |
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oh_lydia
Upton, MA
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.... Bull, I am warming up on a good looking, 6' 2" eyes of blue, 56 year old that has his own wallet. ...
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10/15/2014 7:21:43 PM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
67, joined Jul. 2008
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My mirror told me N O a long, long time ago
Basically what my mirror tells me.......
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10/15/2014 9:17:01 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
60, joined Jan. 2013
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Do we know each other... idk
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10/16/2014 10:14:54 AM |
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oh_lydia
Upton, MA
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the biggest thing for me is to even FIND a man IN this area first... course 2 would be better to have something to compare each other with
JK I like the solitude right now, maybe when I retire I will have more time to pursue a love interest. Im too tired right now
Good grief, Fishy! Florida is loaded with single ol' men
It never occurred to me...you may lookin' for one those young kids like the other cougars here
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10/16/2014 11:00:00 AM |
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103tl1
Nesbit, MS
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.... Bull, I am warming up on a good looking, 6' 2" eyes of blue, 65 year old that has his own wallet. ...
Darn, I'm only 5' 7"
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10/16/2014 3:43:33 PM |
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fishingmom
Lake Alfred, FL
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Good grief, Fishy! Florida is loaded with single ol' men
It never occurred to me...you may lookin' for one those young kids like the other cougars here
youd be surprised at how lacking this area is for single men.. I live in an over 55 community but they are all attached or if not, they prefer their golf carts to women, I swear
its why I go to karaoke, cus I love it, the music and figure someone with same interest would be there........ except theyre mostly 30s - 40s, no thanks.
Its OK though maybe when I retire I can get a golf cart and chase one down
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10/16/2014 5:07:51 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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You sure got this one right!
And you got the message
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10/16/2014 5:28:10 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Every time I look at this question and start to type out a few lines to answer it, I find I want to write a book not just what "I" want but of how the circle of a relationship makes for a better "us".
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10/16/2014 7:53:33 PM |
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oh_lydia
Upton, MA
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Darn, I'm only 5' 7"
Shar's only 5'4".... Why is it that all the short ladies tie up with tall men. And the tall ladies end up home alone And why couldn't I have stopped growing at age ten
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10/16/2014 8:35:12 PM |
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103tl1
Nesbit, MS
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Shar's only 5'4".... Why is it that all the short ladies tie up with tall men. And the tall ladies end up home alone And why couldn't I have stopped growing at age ten
What's wrong with tall women?
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10/16/2014 8:56:37 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
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Actually, I couldn't give a crap less. Some may not have interest in curt messages.
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10/16/2014 9:05:21 PM |
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bub0492
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014
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What's wrong with tall women?
Absolutely nothing!!!!! Loooong legs..... long hair..... cute lil button bumps.....
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