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10/19/2014 12:06:04 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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At the same rate that they marry other women?

So this means that many white men will f**k a black woman, but refuses to bring her home to his family and marry her...far more than any other racial or interracial category in the country.

Why is that?



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10/19/2014 12:06:42 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

jester0011
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some do.

10/19/2014 12:12:05 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

twining
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Because if some white men bring a black woman home, their families would disown them.

10/19/2014 12:15:47 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
b2cold
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I would black women are most beautiful. I think js



[Edited 10/19/2014 12:16:30 PM ]

10/19/2014 12:21:06 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

smthgabouther
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,095)
Baltimore, MD
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A White man wanted to marry me but I couldn't see past his obesity.
Did you get a chance to look over that thread about why Americans should not obtain a marriage license? It was very insightful. God has nothing to do with marriage as we know it.

10/19/2014 12:22:51 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
romantic_hearty
Baton Rouge, LA
27, joined Mar. 2013


That's a lie- I was engaged to a white man and my children are by white men. I think the way society is now- racism hasn't died and the white men I'm meeting are telling me that they want to date outside their race and marry. What's stopping them? -Themselves. IRDC what race you are- just treat me right and we have no problem. I'm not some ghetto hood eat; actually an educated sister.

10/19/2014 12:24:13 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

smthgabouther
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Quote from b2cold:
I would black women are most beautiful. I think js






10/19/2014 12:27:12 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (47,183)
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Some do married them, and op
try getting a grip on yourself

10/19/2014 12:31:51 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
starr_so_happy
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Im the one with the cold feet

10/19/2014 12:37:37 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Quote from twining:
Because if some white men bring a black woman home, their families would disown them.


I wonder why this is?

I have my own ideas why, but it's a lot of reasons I think this is...

10/19/2014 12:38:29 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,510)
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Some do married them, and op
try getting a grip on yourself


If you read the opener, you'll see of course, SOME do, but that's not the topic. Get a grip.

10/19/2014 12:40:44 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

twining
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Quote from dr_know:
I wonder why this is?

I have my own ideas why, but it's a lot of reasons I think this is...



His great grandfather was a minister who was against interacial relationships.

True story. His family hated me.

10/19/2014 12:42:17 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
romantic_hearty
Baton Rouge, LA
27, joined Mar. 2013


Once again racism hasn't died and a lot of sisters don't want to date outside their race. A lot of white men are scared to do it and maybe looked as crazy.

10/19/2014 12:44:24 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Thanks for sharing these honest answers.

I think they will answer some questions people keep having on these internet websites.

TOPIC CLOSED

10/19/2014 1:03:43 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

billr2014
Salem, MA
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I think there are more nd more interratial marriges,every year..predict that in the not too far future there will be only one race.

10/19/2014 1:13:00 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
Over 2,000 Posts (2,189)
Seattle, WA
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I was brought home to my white exes family a couple times... both parents liked me

But non the less i really dont think its that reason you are so OP I think its mainly because black women and white men just simly dont want to marry outside their race.

But in seattle interracial marraige is in the rise whoo! Lol I love my city

And on another note..who really gives a damn? Do you really care about this situation or are you tryingnto make black women feel bad?
this thread is lame.. lets not worry about whos marring who and lll the garbage..

Lets be rational people, (not starting race BS) and Just mind to our own
if you can do that you are truely secure in your life.



[Edited 10/19/2014 1:14:50 PM ]

10/19/2014 1:19:26 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
Over 2,000 Posts (2,189)
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

10/19/2014 1:24:53 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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They actually do. As a black woman who dates white men I can testify that they love the chocolate bunnies! (some of them)

10/19/2014 1:26:57 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,510)
Atlanta, GA
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Y'all are funny. And naive.

No wonder, they don't mind f**king you, but not marrying you.

10/19/2014 1:29:13 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
19, joined Oct. 2014


Annnnnnd once again I get shot down for having any opinion whatsoever.
Thanks for asking for my opinion and then shooting it down once you don't agree

10/19/2014 1:31:43 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
coldness
Kent, WA
23, joined Dec. 2013


Who f**kin cares?

I would marry a black woman if i met one who was A good person. but unfortunately Most black women ,which is the majority of black women in america, dont marry out
and it would make sense that more white men are marring inside since in America White is the majority race.
so therefore there wouldn't be as much interracial marriages.

10/19/2014 1:35:33 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
bruceinsaginaw
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

10/19/2014 1:36:02 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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If only more people would think like you ^^^ (coldness)



[Edited 10/19/2014 1:36:41 PM ]

10/19/2014 1:37:19 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
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Seattle, WA
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Quote from Juicy_J14:
Annnnnnd once again I get shot down for having any opinion whatsoever.
Thanks for asking for my opinion and then shooting it down once you don't agree


Its just apparently ignorance.. he says we are niave because of our pass experiences dating white men prove his statement wrong and he cant accept that.. cause like i assume he is trying to make IR dating black women feel bad.

And too be honest i have never been used up by the white men ive dated

But i sure have by the black guys "i thought liked me for more than my looks"

And im not saying this to compare white men to black men... but im makingbpoint



[Edited 10/19/2014 1:40:53 PM ]

10/19/2014 1:39:07 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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Thanks for the support Lady!

10/19/2014 1:40:33 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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Quote from bruceinsaginaw:
I would pay to shoot jizz in your mouth, ass, p*ssy and tits. But I would not marry you.

Whoa that was pretty graphic. Is it wrong that I got turned on??

10/19/2014 1:41:43 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
bruceinsaginaw
Saginaw, MI
60, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from Juicy_J14:
If only more people would think like you ^^^ (coldness)



most white guys do..why in the f**k would we marry ratchet weave wearing ghetto b*tches?

10/19/2014 1:44:20 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
coldness
Kent, WA
23, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from bruceinsaginaw:
most white guys do..why in the f**k would we marry ratchet weave wearing ghetto b*tches?


I've come of across many black women who weren't ghetto ratchet weave wearing b*tches... i think it more has to do with the person they are not their race cause theyre is plenty of ratchet females in all races.



[Edited 10/19/2014 1:44:50 PM ]

10/19/2014 1:45:18 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
19, joined Oct. 2014


I wasn't talking about you. Also I don't wear "weave" lots of white women wear extensions also.
But you cant assume we're all the same.
Don't let one bad apple spoil the group... or something like that

10/19/2014 1:47:01 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
coldness
Kent, WA
23, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from watermoon:
Its just apparently ignorance.. he says we are niave because of our pass experiences dating white men prove his statement wrong and he cant accept that.. cause like i assume he is trying to make IR dating black women feel bad.

And too be honest i have never been used up by the white men ive dated

But i sure have by the black guys "i thought liked me for more than my looks"

And im not saying this to compare white men to black men... but im makingbpoint


yeah I remember that donte dude you dated awhile back.. I told you he was just an a**hole. you dont listen.. lol

10/19/2014 1:48:40 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
Over 2,000 Posts (2,189)
Seattle, WA
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Quote from Juicy_J14:
I wasn't talking about you. Also I don't wear "weave" lots of white women wear extensions also.
But you cant assume we're all the same.
Don't let one bad apple spoil the group... or something like that


You should block that guy cause hes just a troll.

10/19/2014 1:49:24 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
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Quote from coldness:
yeah I remember that donte dude you dated awhile back.. I told you he was just an a**hole. you dont listen.. lol


Yeah i know I wish i would of listened to you before i got my heart ripped out

10/19/2014 1:58:58 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
b2cold
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Quote from smthgabouther:


10/19/2014 2:00:29 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Quote from Juicy_J14:
Whoa that was pretty graphic. Is it wrong that I got turned on??



No it's not, when you're a sellout slut that likes Klansmen to degrade you.

Please, go right ahead and prove exactly why...many types of men don't see this as "wifey material".

10/19/2014 2:02:02 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
coldness
Kent, WA
23, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from watermoon:
Yeah i know I wish i would of listened to you before i got my heart ripped out


we live and we learn lol

10/19/2014 2:02:59 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Atlanta, GA
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Quote from bruceinsaginaw:
most white guys do..why in the f**k would we marry ratchet weave wearing ghetto b*tches?


You don't see black millions of black men acting like this toward white women. But you do see millions of white men acting like this toward black women.



Carry on

10/19/2014 2:03:52 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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Quote from dr_know:
No it's not, when you're a sellout slut that likes Klansmen to degrade you.

Please, go right ahead and prove exactly why...many types of men don't see this as "wifey material".

It was a JOKE going ahead and feeding into his crap and laughing about it What ever dude. Continue to dissect my words and use them against me

10/19/2014 2:06:06 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

packersbabe920
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Quote from dr_know:
If you read the opener, you'll see of course, SOME do, but that's not the topic. Get a grip.




oh I got it

10/19/2014 2:12:58 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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10/19/2014 2:25:21 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
bruceinsaginaw
Saginaw, MI
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Quote from coldness:
I've come of across many black women who weren't ghetto ratchet weave wearing b*tches... i think it more has to do with the person they are not their race cause theyre is plenty of ratchet females in all races.


another f**king whacked bong-water drinking liberal trying to make a case that there are white ratchet ghetto b*tches so we should not just pick on black wh*res...yeah ok , go with that you low functioning mental midget

10/19/2014 2:27:02 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
bruceinsaginaw
Saginaw, MI
60, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from dr_know:
No it's not, when you're a sellout slut that likes Klansmen to degrade you.

Please, go right ahead and prove exactly why...many types of men don't see this as "wifey material".


that cigar youre sucking looks just like that black down-low d*ck you suck

10/19/2014 2:29:48 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,510)
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Do you often imagine homosexual acts, and post that on the internet?

10/19/2014 2:36:04 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

Juicy_J14
Springfield, IL
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Guilty

10/19/2014 3:52:07 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

mylegsarecold
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OP, why do you put all the burden on the white man?
In today's culture marriage isn't something a man does to a woman,
it's something a man and woman do together. It's a mutual agreement.

10/19/2014 4:48:59 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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10/19/2014 5:22:01 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

mylegsarecold
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Quote from dr_know:

Why don't black women marry white men? Are the white men only good for f**king and not marrying?

10/19/2014 5:23:23 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

brianag94
Summerville, SC
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Quote from bruceinsaginaw:
another f**king whacked bong-water drinking liberal trying to make a case that there are white ratchet ghetto b*tches so we should not just pick on black wh*res...yeah ok , go with that you low functioning mental midget


Well I'm far from ghetto. I'm a nurse, work at a VA hospital AND go to college. Welfare is non existent to my family. I have my own car, working getting my first place & I just turned 20 not even a month ago. I became a licensed phlebotomist before my 19 birthday & graduated highschool in the top 10 with honors. And I have no kids. But I guess because God decided to give me black skin, that such achievements are impossible for me right ?

10/19/2014 5:25:55 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
amusicluvr
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Many white guys marry black women. It is more common all the time. Usually black men resent that.

10/19/2014 5:29:59 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
amusicluvr
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I'm white. I was all set to marry a black woman I knew well, and loved, and who loved me. I had the license, and all, and she literally left me at the altar...because her black friends, and family, threatened to disown her if she married a white guy. She preferred to lose just me over losing everyone else in her life.

10/19/2014 5:38:40 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

mrfckinpetey
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Quote from dr_know:
At the same rate that they marry other women?

So this means that many white men will f**k a black woman, but refuses to bring her home to his family and marry her...far more than any other racial or interracial category in the country.

Why is that?



Almost all men will f**k just about any willing woman. They only tend to marry ones they find truly attractive and worth being around long term. Black women generally speaking are lacking in both those areas.

10/19/2014 5:58:09 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Almost all men will f**k just about any willing woman. They only tend to marry ones they find truly attractive and worth being around long term. Black women generally speaking are lacking in both those areas.


Whether I agree with this man or not, he is the only white man I've seen on the internet that speaks the unadulterated truth of how the vast majority of white men think...without trying in the slightest to be a bigot or racist.

You see how other white guys go through all that "No! You're telling a lie! We like all women the same! It's not us, it's the black woman that doesn't want to marry us!"

SMH

We can't get anywhere, as long as people keep worrying about how they are perceived, or being politically correct.

The truth is, the majority of white men are not raised to hold black women (or any other woman) in as high esteem as their own women! This is reinforced in society, the media, etc.

The problem we have here, is that Black American women live in that same society, so they are indoctrinated to a degree...to believe "white is right" as well!

That's why all races of women will chase after white men, EVEN WHITE WHITE MEN CONTINUOUSLY SHOW THEM THEY ARE NOT AS VALUED AS WHITE WOMEN!

If you were raised in South Africa with Mandela as president, you wouldn't be like this.

You would not accept throwing yourselves at your former/current oppressors while they show statistically that you aren't as valued.

You suffer from a mental disease.

Malcolm X would never behave like this, and neither should you.

If a white man treats you like a queen, fine. But the way many black women conduct themselves acting like wh*res....gets you treated like a wh*re.

Then you want to come back to black men?

No thank you.

10/19/2014 5:59:00 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
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Seattle, WA
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Quote from amusicluvr:
I'm white. I was all set to marry a black woman I knew well, and loved, and who loved me. I had the license, and all, and she literally left me at the altar...because her black friends, and family, threatened to disown her if she married a white guy. She preferred to lose just me over losing everyone else in her life.


Wow thats horrible im sorry that happened

10/19/2014 6:03:51 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

watermoon
Over 2,000 Posts (2,189)
Seattle, WA
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Behind all this bullcrap i see a bitter angriness.. smh

AMERICA will never get over racial standards because of people like you... an how are you going to these white men who dont mind dating or marrying a black how they ffeel? Im sure they're all very assured about the perception on how they socially view the world.

Quote from amusicluvr:
I'm white. I was all set to marry a black woman I knew well, and loved, and who loved me. I had the license, and all, and she literally left me at the altar...because her black friends, and family, threatened to disown her if she married a white guy. She preferred to lose just me over losing everyone else in her life.


Wow thats horrible im sorry that happened

10/19/2014 6:04:40 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,510)
Atlanta, GA
42, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from watermoon:
Wow thats horrible im sorry that happened


What you should be "sorry" about, is WHY that Black family has such apprehension in THE FIRST PLACE!

As if they just woke up not trusting white people.

Gtfoh

10/19/2014 6:10:04 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
coldness
Kent, WA
23, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from dr_know:
Whether I agree with this man or not, he is the only white man I've seen on the internet that speaks the unadulterated truth of how the vast majority of white men think...without trying in the slightest to be a bigot or racist.

You see how other white guys go through all that "No! You're telling a lie! We like all women the same! It's not us, it's the black woman that doesn't want to marry us!"

SMH

We can't get anywhere, as long as people keep worrying about how they are perceived, or being politically correct.

The truth is, the majority of white men are not raised to hold black women (or any other woman) in as high esteem as their own women! This is reinforced in society, the media, etc.

The problem we have here, is that Black American women live in that same society, so they are indoctrinated to a degree...to believe "white is right" as well!

That's why all races of women will chase after white men, EVEN WHITE WHITE MEN CONTINUOUSLY SHOW THEM THEY ARE NOT AS VALUED AS WHITE WOMEN!

If you were raised in South Africa with Mandela as president, you wouldn't be like this.

You would not accept throwing yourselves at your former/current oppressors while they show statistically that you aren't as valued.

You suffer from a mental disease.

Malcolm X would never behave like this, and neither should you.

If a white man treats you like a queen, fine. But the way many black women conduct themselves acting like wh*res....gets you treated like a wh*re.

Then you want to come back to black men?

No thank you.

huh
This post sounds like a big contradiction
are you saying its the black womens fault or the white mans fault?.

10/19/2014 6:17:56 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  
chvrches
Seattle, WA
22, joined Aug. 2014


You know what I want to know

is why are black men always so concerened with interracial dating between black women and white men?

is it really any of your business?

or are you the type of black man who thinks he is entitled to all black women



[Edited 10/19/2014 6:18:34 PM ]

10/19/2014 6:20:57 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

mrfckinpetey
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Most white men are just afraid of being labeled a racist, so much so that they don't speak their minds on how they really feel, even if they aren't racist.

But in all fairness, anytime a white guy even mentions a racial issue, there's a good chance that a black person is going to cry "Racist!". The irony is that by avoiding the issues, or trying to move around them carefully, people are generally clever enough to detect that they're hiding something, which gives more reason to assume that deep down they're racist.

The truth of the matter is, most white people I know, don't give two shits about race. You never hear white people discussing racial issues among themselves, especially not how most blacks assume it being "black vs white". Because white people don't even consider themselves "white". There are Italians, Irish, English, Welsh, Norwegian, etc. We all have our own challenges within what most consider "white", and "black" is just another section of people that fall into that category.

It doesn't seem this way with blacks though. You don't really see Jamaicans challenging Haitians, or Africans challenging Liberians, etc. There's more of a brotherhood among all blacks, which I think is why blacks assume that all whites form a brotherhood among themselves. I've never met any white people that look at it that way. We naturally like to challenge each other, that's how we progress as a people. It's why in war you have the red coats, and the blue rebels. Or the red republicans and the blue democrats. We naturally use color to draw lines (or at least this is how most white races seem to lean), and so that natural competition can come off as racist to someone not familiar with that way of thinking.

It really has nothing to do with race itself, but more to do with how different we look. We like to be around people that look similar to us, because that makes us feel safer. But it's all perspective. To some people, they look at us as human beings as being one team. To others, they look at people with long hair as being one team, or blue eyes, or red hair, etc.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make, is that there aren't nearly as many people who simply think "Damn them n**gers! They're all bad!". It's more along the lines of "Damn, that person seems different than I am! I best be careful to make sure my way of life isn't effected by it!".

The solution is to change perspective.

If we were suddenly invaded by an alien race of spider people, you'd quickly see blacks and whites banding together like brothers, seeing a common human way of life to protect.



[Edited 10/19/2014 6:22:03 PM ]

10/19/2014 6:34:26 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

twining
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Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Almost all men will f**k just about any willing woman. They only tend to marry ones they find truly attractive and worth being around long term. Black women generally speaking are lacking in both those areas.


Thanks. This wouldn't be a meaningful thread if there wasn't stereotypes and all that jazz. Let's blame the black woman and the white man because apparantly there isn't enough blame or insults to share equally.

10/19/2014 7:48:05 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

indianadave1951
Over 2,000 Posts (3,865)
Elkhart, IN
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Quote from dr_know:
I wonder why this is?

I have my own ideas why, but it's a lot of reasons I think this is...


So all while men are evil racists, right? Is this the answer you want to hear? Will that answer make you happy and brighten your day?

10/19/2014 8:28:31 PM Why Don't White Men Marry Black Women?  

dr_know
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Atlanta, GA
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Whites don't have to be all racists. All whites are not racist. That's not the point though.

Whether you like it, admit it, or stand against it or not...This country is skewed toward favoring people who are assumed to be "white".

This permeates into all facets of society.

Whether you agree with it or not.

That's why we have to make laws and shit to stand against this ever-pervasive racism.

Some people like these laws, and have begun believing that race doesn't matter. It may not to YOU, but there are millions that are still racist, and who actively try to oppress minorities.

UNTIL THAT IS STRAIGHTENED OUT...it kind of is unbecoming for members of the black race (who are still discriminated against) to walk around acting like all is well.

The stats tell the truth, that white men do not see black women in the same light as they do white women. Statistically.

So it's black women who should be wary of chasing after certain types of men, that will MORE LIKELY see them as just a f**k, and not a wife.

Unless of course they don't mind being a wh*re and slut.

Which they have every right to be.

Just look at the comments by white men against blacks on this site, and multiply that by a million.

And act accordingly.

Have a good day.